Causes !!
“Love” a word that we are all very familiar with or maybe we think we are familiar with. When we see a good looking man or woman we feel like being with them. We want them to notice us and compliment us. We all rush a rush to look the best we can. Is this feeling love? The one that makes us worry so much about our looks. When a 16 year old boy or girl sees a handsome teacher even when she’s or he’s 40 he or she gets attracted to him. Is this love? When we see a famous television actor or actress we think there is no one in this world who matches the capabilities of such television actors or actress. We consider them to be our idols, and become their fans. Is this love? When our heart gets stuck for a handsome looking guy even when he is bad individually, is this love? If this is love then I have to say that love is blind. The logic of our mind is very odd in the sense that we like someone not because that person is good, but we consider that person good just because we like them. We never listen to our instinct that sometimes tells or warns us that what we are doing might be wrong. We follow the instructions that we think our heart gives. We do what we are willing to do even when we know what we are doing might be wrong.
What exactly is love? It may be some kind of a way to achieve relaxation. Or it may be a kind of respect concerns and gratitude we show towards a certain person.
Is love lust? Is love just pain, blood struggle and banging against the wall. If so why do we fall in love? According to Hindu mythology love is a feeling that develops only between married couples. And it means pure devotion and sacrifice towards your partner. It means following the seven oaths that you take while you are getting married.
If we describe love in scientific terms, then we would say love is just a feeling due to some chemical reactions inside us.
Now let me give you an example to explain my point every next day we get to hear in news channels or news paper that a certain boy or girl threw acid on the person he or she loved or a certain boy or girl committed suicide just because they had been rejected by the person that they loved. Now a day’s some young boys and girls feel that if they didn’t get the same kind of love and affection that they want to get from a certain person then their life is not worth living or they start hating the person who rejected their love.
Now a day’s young boys and girls are being made aware of sex related information which is most definitely and undoubtedly a very good thing. But youngsters after knowing about things like these want to try them. Now a day’s some youngsters develop a habit of watching porn, which is a very bad habit. It has been getting hard for the parents to stop their children from doing things that they shouldn’t do. At present days even a fourteen or fifteen year old boy or girl has a girlfriend or boyfriend, and they bunk schools to go to a cinema theatre or park with their lovers. Instead of paying attention to their studies their mind gets diverted in to these things. And as they get more and more indulged into things like these they have to face major depression sometimes. What is happening these days is beyond explanation. The concept of love has changed. Looking at the present scenario I can definitely say that we are all (not just youngster’s even matured people) under the hallucination that love is like a sunny bright feeling, it is this!! It is that! Or that it means that a certain person is more than the whole world for a certain someone. Or we consider love to be such things that we think they are but at a certain level we are not sure of it. What ever it is it surely does makes us think weirdly sometimes.
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