MY SCHOOL LIFE

Like every other grown up i also feel that school days are always a special part of one's lifetime. if it goes its hard to bring back those times. school was all about, masti, friendship, studies, and play. My school life was not that much of rocking. i was not even near the popular boys and girls of our class. When i was in class nine i had my first crush on a new boy in our class. The problem was that even my best friend had a crush on him. Even when my best friend and i were together, somewhere in our hearts we felt it was a big problem. But this whole thing ended pretty soon.

I used to study maths in a coaching class held by barnali mam, there i met mr. abc, our class hottie. Gosh! he used to carry himself around with such grace and elegance. His style, looks, attitude,made allmost all the girls in our class fall flat for him. The most important thing that struck me was that he didnt show any arrogance. I had a crush on this guy, but this time my best friend had a love factor for him. I started disliking my friend for liking the same person whom i liked again. But now i feel really bad when i think of the whole matter. I didnt tell her about my crush on him too, and told her that i will stay out of the whole thing. But to tell you the truth i pretty much tried my level best to butt my way in. It felt almost like i was in a competition rather than in a crush. my frnd x as for one truly loved him and still does. If you ask me i would say in my case it was not at the least more than a stupid little crush for me.

what is love?

What is love? N what effect it sometimes

Causes !!

“Love” a word that we are all very familiar with or maybe we think we are familiar with. When we see a good looking man or woman we feel like being with them. We want them to notice us and compliment us. We all rush a rush to look the best we can. Is this feeling love? The one that makes us worry so much about our looks. When a 16 year old boy or girl sees a handsome teacher even when she’s or he’s 40 he or she gets attracted to him. Is this love? When we see a famous television actor or actress we think there is no one in this world who matches the capabilities of such television actors or actress. We consider them to be our idols, and become their fans. Is this love? When our heart gets stuck for a handsome looking guy even when he is bad individually, is this love? If this is love then I have to say that love is blind. The logic of our mind is very odd in the sense that we like someone not because that person is good, but we consider that person good just because we like them. We never listen to our instinct that sometimes tells or warns us that what we are doing might be wrong. We follow the instructions that we think our heart gives. We do what we are willing to do even when we know what we are doing might be wrong.

What exactly is love? It may be some kind of a way to achieve relaxation. Or it may be a kind of respect concerns and gratitude we show towards a certain person.

Is love lust? Is love just pain, blood struggle and banging against the wall. If so why do we fall in love? According to Hindu mythology love is a feeling that develops only between married couples. And it means pure devotion and sacrifice towards your partner. It means following the seven oaths that you take while you are getting married.

If we describe love in scientific terms, then we would say love is just a feeling due to some chemical reactions inside us.

Now let me give you an example to explain my point every next day we get to hear in news channels or news paper that a certain boy or girl threw acid on the person he or she loved or a certain boy or girl committed suicide just because they had been rejected by the person that they loved. Now a day’s some young boys and girls feel that if they didn’t get the same kind of love and affection that they want to get from a certain person then their life is not worth living or they start hating the person who rejected their love.

Now a day’s young boys and girls are being made aware of sex related information which is most definitely and undoubtedly a very good thing. But youngsters after knowing about things like these want to try them. Now a day’s some youngsters develop a habit of watching porn, which is a very bad habit. It has been getting hard for the parents to stop their children from doing things that they shouldn’t do. At present days even a fourteen or fifteen year old boy or girl has a girlfriend or boyfriend, and they bunk schools to go to a cinema theatre or park with their lovers. Instead of paying attention to their studies their mind gets diverted in to these things. And as they get more and more indulged into things like these they have to face major depression sometimes. What is happening these days is beyond explanation. The concept of love has changed. Looking at the present scenario I can definitely say that we are all (not just youngster’s even matured people) under the hallucination that love is like a sunny bright feeling, it is this!! It is that! Or that it means that a certain person is more than the whole world for a certain someone. Or we consider love to be such things that we think they are but at a certain level we are not sure of it. What ever it is it surely does makes us think weirdly sometimes.